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The Calm Before the Storm

A Note of Caution

Do not share this information with anyone. No one needs to know what you are planning and how you are going to accomplish your goals. You never know who knows whom in this world. If the other side is tipped off to your plans, they will know how to counterstrike.

I would assume that lawyers in particular are not too fond of this sort of book. They are professionals that get paid based on billable hours. If you are confused, they have to explain things to you and they bill for that time. A lawyer is a valuable (unfortunately necessary) tool in your divorce and custody case. Listen to your lawyer, but do not let them completely run the show – you need to provide your input.

Never EVER tell your spouse what you are going to do! This will derail your plan faster than anything else. You can never assume that you have the upper hand in this battle.

Treat this information like any of the other confidential material you have stored away in your brain and act accordingly.

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